Why an Entire Generation Has Convinced Itself That Buying a Home Is Impossible


Something interesting has happened over the past few years. Homeownership stopped being just a financial goal for a lot of younger Canadians. It became an identity.

You have probably seen it. The social media posts about how buying a home is a rigged game. The resignation that renting forever is just the reality now. The eye rolls when someone suggests that maybe, with the right approach, buying is still possible. For a significant portion of people in their 20s and early 30s, the belief that they will never own a home has become so deeply embedded that it shapes their financial decisions, their spending habits, and their sense of what the future looks like.

I want to push back on that. Not because the market is easy. It is not. Not because sacrifice is not required. It is. But because giving up before you try is not a financial strategy. It is just giving up.

And in markets like Brantford, Cambridge, and Kitchener-Waterloo, the math is more possible than the narrative suggests.


Where the belief comes from

The doom and gloom is not entirely without basis. Home prices in major Canadian cities have increased dramatically over the past two decades. Toronto and Vancouver have become genuinely unattainable for most first time buyers without significant outside help. Social media amplifies the worst stories and the most discouraging statistics. If your entire feed is telling you that homeownership is a fantasy, eventually you start to believe it.

But here is the thing about doom scrolling real estate content. Most of it is not talking about Brantford. Most of it is not talking about Cambridge or Kitchener. It is talking about Toronto. And Toronto is not the only market in Ontario.

The buyers I work with regularly purchase homes in the $400,000 to $600,000 range in these markets. That is not a fantasy number for a household with two incomes, a savings plan, and the right programs in place. It is a real number that real people are achieving right now.


Risk is not the enemy. Avoiding it is.

Here is something nobody tells young buyers often enough. There is no path forward in life that does not involve risk. Every financial decision you make carries risk. Staying in a rental while prices rise around you is a risk. Spending instead of saving is a risk. Deciding not to try is a risk.

The question is never whether risk exists. The question is whether the risk is worth taking and whether you have managed it as well as you can.

Buying a home in a fundamentally sound market like Brantford or Cambridge, with a mortgage you can realistically afford, with a property that has long term value, is a manageable and historically rewarding risk. It requires discipline. It requires sacrifice. It might mean driving a used car longer than you wanted, eating out less, or saying no to a vacation or two. Those are real trade-offs and I am not going to pretend they are nothing.

But the alternative, waiting indefinitely while rents rise and the goal post moves further away, is also a choice with consequences. A more comfortable choice in the short term but not necessarily a better one.


The tools that exist and most people do not use

This is where I want to spend some time because a lot of younger buyers genuinely do not know what is available to them. The programs are not widely advertised and most people are not told about them until they are already sitting across from a mortgage broker.

The First Home Savings Account is one of the most powerful tools available right now. It allows first time buyers to contribute up to $8,000 per year to a maximum of $40,000, with contributions being tax deductible and withdrawals for a qualifying home purchase being tax free. If you are not contributing to this account and you are thinking about buying in the next few years, you are leaving real money on the table.

The RRSP Home Buyers Plan allows first time buyers to withdraw up to $35,000 from their RRSP toward a home purchase, tax free, as long as the funds are repaid over 15 years. Combined with the FHSA that is up to $75,000 in potential down payment funds with significant tax advantages built in.

If you are buying in Brantford, the B-HOME program offers down payment assistance for eligible buyers. If you are buying in Waterloo Region, there is a similar affordable home ownership program available. These are programs that genuinely reduce the barrier to entry and most first time buyers in these areas have no idea they exist.

Ontario first time buyers also receive a land transfer tax rebate of up to $4,000 which reduces closing costs meaningfully. And buyers of newly built homes may be eligible for HST rebates that further reduce the cost of purchase.

None of these programs eliminate the challenge of buying a home. But together they can meaningfully change the math for buyers who are willing to do the work to understand and use them.


Thinking about buying in Brantford, Cambridge, or Kitchener-Waterloo and want to understand what is actually possible for your situation? I am happy to have that conversation without any pressure or agenda. Book a free chat here or check out my first time buyer page for more resources.


Buy what you can afford, not what you think you deserve

This one is uncomfortable to say but I am going to say it anyway.

A lot of younger buyers are not priced out of the market entirely. They are priced out of their ideal home in their ideal neighbourhood at 28 years old. That is a very different problem.

The first home is not supposed to be the forever home. It is supposed to be the entry point. A condo, a townhouse, a smaller detached in a less trendy neighbourhood, something that gets you into the market, builds equity, and positions you for the next move in five to seven years.

I have seen buyers in Brantford and Cambridge purchase solid first homes in the $350,000 to $450,000 range that would make most Toronto buyers weep with jealousy. That range is not glamorous but it is real and it is attainable and it is how wealth gets built over time.

The buyers who get ahead are not the ones who wait for the perfect opportunity. They are the ones who take the realistic opportunity in front of them and work from there.


Get the right people around you

The difference between a buyer who gets into the market and one who stays on the sidelines is often not income or savings. It is information and support.

A good mortgage broker will tell you what you actually qualify for, which programs you are eligible for, and how to structure your finances to make a purchase work. Not a bank who wants to sell you their product. A broker who works for you and has access to multiple lenders.

A good buyer's agent will tell you which properties are worth your time, which ones have issues that do not show up in the listing, and how to make an offer that is competitive without overpaying. The best agents I know will also tell you when not to buy, when something is not right, and when waiting makes more sense than jumping.

The narrative that homeownership is impossible often comes from people who are trying to navigate a complex process without the right guides. Get the right people in your corner and the conversation changes.


Frequently asked questions about buying a home as a younger buyer in Ontario

Is it still possible to buy a home in Ontario in 2026?

Yes. Not in every market and not without sacrifice, but in markets like Brantford, Cambridge, and Kitchener-Waterloo first time buyers are purchasing homes regularly. The math is harder than it was a decade ago but it is not impossible, particularly for buyers who use the available programs and buy within their means.

What is the First Home Savings Account and how does it work?

The FHSA allows first time buyers to contribute up to $8,000 per year to a maximum of $40,000. Contributions are tax deductible and qualifying withdrawals for a home purchase are tax free. It is one of the most powerful savings tools available to younger buyers right now and anyone planning to buy within the next few years should be contributing to one.

Can I use my RRSP to buy a home?

Yes. The Home Buyers Plan allows first time buyers to withdraw up to $35,000 from their RRSP toward a home purchase tax free. The funds need to be repaid over 15 years. Combined with the FHSA this creates significant potential for down payment savings with real tax advantages.

Are there programs to help first time buyers in Brantford or Waterloo Region?

Yes. Brantford has the B-HOME program which offers down payment assistance for eligible buyers. Waterloo Region has a similar affordable home ownership program. Both have eligibility requirements and limited availability so the earlier you look into them the better.

What kind of home can a first time buyer realistically afford in Brantford or Cambridge?

In Brantford and Cambridge buyers in the $350,000 to $550,000 range have access to condos, townhouses, and smaller detached homes depending on the neighbourhood. These are not glamorous entry points but they are real ones that build equity and position buyers for their next move.

Do I need a large down payment to buy a home in Ontario?

The minimum down payment in Canada is 5 percent on homes under $500,000 and 10 percent on the portion between $500,000 and $999,999. On a $450,000 home that is $22,500 minimum. With the FHSA, RRSP Home Buyers Plan, and any regional programs you may qualify for, that number is more achievable than most people think.


Simon's Final Note

I am not going to tell you homeownership is easy. It is not. I am not going to tell you the market is fair. It is not always. And I am not going to tell you that sacrifice is fun. It is not.

But I have watched too many people in their 20s and 30s talk themselves out of trying before they even understood what was possible for their specific situation. The narrative that an entire generation is locked out of homeownership is partly true and partly a story people have told themselves so many times it has become a belief.

Your situation is not the same as the Toronto housing market. Your situation is not the same as the worst case scenario you read about on Reddit. Your situation is yours and it deserves an honest look with the right information and the right people around you.

If you are in Brantford, Cambridge, or Kitchener-Waterloo and you have written off homeownership without ever actually running the numbers, I am happy to have that conversation. Coffee is on me.

Book a free chat with Simon

Simon Royer, REALTOR® at RE/MAX Icon Realty  226-218-6875 | simonsayzsold.ca  First time buyer guide  Free home evaluation


Not intended to solicit buyers or sellers currently under contract. RE/MAX Icon Realty Brokerage, 33-620 Davenport Rd, Waterloo, ON N2V 2C2

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