“Buying from the Listing Agent Will Get You a Better Deal”… Right? Not So Fast.

“Buying From the Listing Agent Will Get You a Better Deal”… Right? Not So Fast.

By Simon Royer | RE/MAX Icon Realty

Short answer:

No — buying directly from the listing agent does not automatically get you a better deal.
In many Ontario transactions, it can actually cost buyers more money, weaker terms, and less protection, especially in competitive or nuanced markets like Brantford, Kitchener–Waterloo, and Cambridge.

Let’s break down why this myth persists — and what buyers should really understand before trying this strategy.


What Does the Listing Agent Actually Do?

A listing agent is hired by the seller, not the buyer.

Their legal and professional responsibilities are to:

  • Get the highest possible price

  • Secure the best terms for the seller

  • Protect the seller’s negotiating position

  • Advise the seller strategically throughout the process

So when a buyer approaches the listing agent directly, that agent doesn’t suddenly “work for both sides” in the way many buyers expect.

In most cases, the agent becomes a dual agent or transaction facilitator, meaning:

  • They cannot fully advocate for either party

  • They must remain neutral

  • They cannot give strategic advice that benefits one side over the other

Translation: you don’t gain an ally — you lose one.


Will the Seller Pass Commission Savings on to the Buyer?

This is where the myth really takes hold.

Buyers often assume:

“If the listing agent is getting both sides of the commission, the seller will reduce the price.”

In reality:

  • Sellers are not obligated to pass along savings

  • Many sellers don’t even think in commission terms

  • Some sellers see unrepresented buyers as having less leverage

What often happens instead:

  • Price stays the same

  • Negotiations get tighter

  • The seller holds firmer on conditions and timelines

You’re hoping for generosity — not negotiating from strength.


What Buyers Lose Without Their Own Agent

When you don’t have independent representation, no one is fully protecting your interests.

That means no one is solely responsible for:

  • Telling you if the home is overpriced

  • Flagging red flags in disclosures or inspections

  • Advising whether conditions should be added or waived

  • Structuring an offer strategy based on local data

  • Helping you navigate timelines, deposits, and closing risks

In Ontario markets where pricing and competition can change street by street, this matters a lot.

Trying to “save” by skipping buyer representation is like going to court without a lawyer because the other side already has one.


Does Using a Buyer’s Agent Cost More?

In most Ontario transactions, no.

Buyer representation is typically paid out of the seller’s side of the commission, regardless of whether the buyer has their own agent or not.

What changes isn’t the cost — it’s who the expertise is working for.

With a buyer’s agent, you gain:

  • Market-specific pricing insight

  • Negotiation strategy tailored to your situation

  • Contract protection and risk management

  • An advocate whose job is to protect your outcome


A Real-World Ontario Example

I’ve seen buyers come to me after initially going straight to the listing agent.

Common outcomes:

  • They overpaid because they didn’t know comparable sales

  • They waived conditions they shouldn’t have

  • They missed opportunities to negotiate repairs, timelines, or price

In several cases, the “commission savings” they were hoping for was far less than what better strategy could have saved them.


Simon’s Take

I understand the instinct — everyone wants to be smart with their money.

But buying directly from the listing agent hoping for a better deal is like playing poker with your cards face-up.

A strong buyer’s agent doesn’t cost you more — they usually save you more than you ever expected by:

  • Protecting your downside

  • Strengthening your offer

  • Helping you avoid expensive mistakes


Thinking About Buying This Year?

If you’re buying in 2026 and wondering about:

  • Offer strategy

  • Whether dual agency makes sense

  • How to negotiate without overpaying

I’m always happy to talk through the pros and cons — no pressure, just strategy.

👉 Book Your Buyer Planning Call

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